Penetration is NOT The Key..

Did you know that women get very little stimulation
through penetration alone?


Yep, the path to orgasm looks very different for a
woman than it does for a man. It is infinitely
easier for a man to cum than a woman. However, a
woman can cum exponentially more times than a man
can. That is, when she can cum at all. A lot of
women can only achieve climax through self
stimulation.


However, the quality of her orgasm tends to be
better when she has a loving partner. You need to
learn the correct way to get those orgasms flowing.
Here are a few things to keep in mind when you're
touching her downstairs.




Direct vs. Indirect


How you make contact with the clitoris is very
important to her orgasm. Before she is properly
turned on, direct clitoral contact can feel quite
irritating to a woman. It is best to start with
indirect contact.


Run your fingers along either side of the clit's
shaft. Tap the clitoral hood. However you move
around, do not go for direct stimulation until she
is good and ready for you. Once her breathing is
heavy, and you can feel the throb below, then you
can move to the sweet spot to send her over the
edge.




Rhythm vs. Speed


An incredibly important distinction to make is the
rhythm of your touch versus the speed of your
touch. A lot of men think they are the same thing,
but they are not.


Speed may vary, but rhythm should not. Most women
like to start with slow, easy caresses, but they
invariably increase speed the closer they become to
achieving orgasm. However, they still maintain the
same rhythm with which they started. It's their
"beat," if you will. So no matter how much you
increase the speed of your caresses, maintain a
consistent flow to the activity.




Thrust vs. Grind


There are very few nerve endings in the walls of
the vagina. Sending her into blissful orgasms
simply by sticking your penis in her is a long
shot. No matter how hard you rail her, you will not
get her off. However, that doesn't mean that she is
completely incapable of climaxing while you are
inside her if you do it right.


Instead of a poke, try a grinding motion. It will
allow your pubic bone to make contact with her
clitoris, which will give her the stimulation she
needs to reach orgasm. It's why so many women
report the woman-on-top position as their favorite.
They can control the action, so they're able to get
that clitoral stimulation by rocking their hips
forward to allow contact with the head of the clit.
Most men like it when their woman rides them. It
provides great visual stimulation, and you
penetrate very deeply.