The '84 Dolphins were an historic team for any
sport.
This was large in part due to Dan Marino's
outstanding season at quarterback. He passed for a
record-setting 5,084 yards and a record-setting 48
touchdowns, and was only sacked 14 times during the
regular season.
He had an uncanny ability to read a play and a
laser for an arm. Combining this with the
synchronicity he had with wide receivers Mark
Clayton and Mike "Super" Duper, it's no wonder they
stand out as one of the greatest teams in sports
history. Hours upon hours of training and drill
running read to this team's precision offense.
However, this is not the way one should approach
sex.
Concentrating too hard on technique can actually
inhibit pleasure during sex. No matter how much
practicing you've done, no two women ever react to
touch the same way, and even the same woman could
have different responses on different occasions.
Mastering specific maneuvers is a practice in
futility.
You're not trying to win the Super Bowl here;
you're trying to please your woman.
Over-thinking your technique is counter productive
to the affect a woman is seeking during sex, which
is a shared connection. I'm not talking soul mate
stuff. Even if it's a one night stand, sex will not
be as satisfying to a woman if the man is not
engaged in the act.
If you're concentrating too hard on which maneuver
comes next for optimum satisfaction - touch her
breast, then kiss her lips, then gently place your
hand between her legs - then you are not using the
best tool you have, which is you.
A woman experiences sex differently than a man. All
a man really needs in order to achieve climax is
stimulation of the penis. If his penis enters a
vagina, he has achieved sex.
Women, however, have sex with all their senses. The
smell of your hair and the warmth of your skin are
all integral to her pleasure. She is experiencing
you with her lips, her hands, and, yes, her
genitals. If your brain is absent, you are not
responding to her desire to touch you, and she will
inevitably feel the distance. However, if you take
a cue from her and start putting your mind back
into the game, you will improve the pleasure levels
for both of you.
Next time you are in bed with a woman, stop worry
about every minutia. Instead, focus on the person
lying with you. Catering to her responses will
yield a vastly superior reaction than cold,
practiced moves.
A woman's Forgotten Climax Buttons
Okay, so you know where the clitoris is...
Congratulations...
However, there is so much more to pleasing a woman
than just stimulating the clit. In fact, dive
straight for the sweet spot, and you may be down
there for hours. Unlike you, she cannot be ready to
go in 2.2 seconds flat.
But fear not, her whole body is covered in trigger
points you may not even be aware of. Here is a
guide to some erogenous zones you may have
forgotten about.
1. THE EARS
Nibbling on her little ear lobes is just the tip of
the ice berg. Anywhere you lick her ears will be
exciting for her - although, full on tongue in the
ear hole should only be saved for special
occasions.
Lick her just under the lobe, and then gently blow
on the spot. It will send shock waves directly to
her genitals. Also take the time to whisper
something dirty while your mouth is that close. If
you're in private, tease her nipples with your
fingers for added effect.
2. THE NECK
Once you've conquered the ears, you can move down
to the neck. The places you want to concentrate are
along the jaw line and just above the collar bones.
If you apply pressure to the larynx, she may feel
like she's being choked.
Kissing along her jaw will relax her, allowing her
mind to focus what you're doing. Stroke her collar
bones lightly, and then kiss or lick in the hollows
just above the collar bones, and in the sternal
notch - the dip in her throat right above the
breast bone. Her whole body will tingle with the
sensation.
3. THE LOWER BACK
The part of the back that meets with the buttocks
is full of little nerve endings. If you lightly
caress her there, you're bound to run into one of
her little ticklish spots.
However, if done correctly, it can be an erotic
ticklish. Before you venture into tickle territory,
you should make sure she is good and relaxed. If
she's all riled up, it'll make her jumpy instead of
horny. Your efforts will be counter productive as
she'll squirm with every touch. However, if she's
mellow, these little sensations will give her a
thrill.
Don't over do it! Run your fingers over her without
aggravating the tickle reflex too much. Otherwise
you'll have another squirmy girl on your hands, and
you'll have to go back to square one to calm her
down.
Congratulations...
However, there is so much more to pleasing a woman
than just stimulating the clit. In fact, dive
straight for the sweet spot, and you may be down
there for hours. Unlike you, she cannot be ready to
go in 2.2 seconds flat.
But fear not, her whole body is covered in trigger
points you may not even be aware of. Here is a
guide to some erogenous zones you may have
forgotten about.
1. THE EARS
Nibbling on her little ear lobes is just the tip of
the ice berg. Anywhere you lick her ears will be
exciting for her - although, full on tongue in the
ear hole should only be saved for special
occasions.
Lick her just under the lobe, and then gently blow
on the spot. It will send shock waves directly to
her genitals. Also take the time to whisper
something dirty while your mouth is that close. If
you're in private, tease her nipples with your
fingers for added effect.
2. THE NECK
Once you've conquered the ears, you can move down
to the neck. The places you want to concentrate are
along the jaw line and just above the collar bones.
If you apply pressure to the larynx, she may feel
like she's being choked.
Kissing along her jaw will relax her, allowing her
mind to focus what you're doing. Stroke her collar
bones lightly, and then kiss or lick in the hollows
just above the collar bones, and in the sternal
notch - the dip in her throat right above the
breast bone. Her whole body will tingle with the
sensation.
3. THE LOWER BACK
The part of the back that meets with the buttocks
is full of little nerve endings. If you lightly
caress her there, you're bound to run into one of
her little ticklish spots.
However, if done correctly, it can be an erotic
ticklish. Before you venture into tickle territory,
you should make sure she is good and relaxed. If
she's all riled up, it'll make her jumpy instead of
horny. Your efforts will be counter productive as
she'll squirm with every touch. However, if she's
mellow, these little sensations will give her a
thrill.
Don't over do it! Run your fingers over her without
aggravating the tickle reflex too much. Otherwise
you'll have another squirmy girl on your hands, and
you'll have to go back to square one to calm her
down.
A WAKE-UP Call to All Men..
Did you know that men's greatest love, their penises,
is also the greatest reason they might end up single
and lonely?
Let me explain:
When you put all the importance in sex on
your own organ, it virtually negates the need for
your partner. Yes, it feels so much better to put
your penis into a vagina than into your fist, but
if that is your only concern you're not really
having sex, you're just getting off.
And guess what?
She can tell. And the more you make her feel like
nothing but a cum dumpster, the more she is going
to pull away from you sexually.
Translation: if you don't put any effort into her
experience in the sack, she will cease to put out.
The greatest impediment to a woman's orgasm is
psychological. She must feel sexy in order to feel
sexual. In today's age, there is a constant
bombardment with images of fantasy - Victoria's
Secret Angels, impossibly perfect and perky
heroines in film, the mainstreaming of porn. The
business intention behind this is to create an
aspirational image. Nobody buys into something they
already have.
However, in the past fifty years, our access to
media has increased exponentially, and society's
consciousness hasn't necessarily had time to
adjust. No matter how secure a woman is, or how
much she turns you on, those images of rote,
male-specific fantasy still lurk in her
subconscious. Women's magazines are flooded with
articles featuring Photoshopped spreads of
actresses giving interviews revolving completely
around diet and exercise routines. Oprah publicly
apologized for gaining weight.
No matter how much they fight against it, women are
consistently told that there is a single standard
for hotness, and none of them fit it. If you get up
in there, pump away until you're done, and then
roll over and start snoring, it looks to her like
you merely put it where you were given permission,
but you were really thinking about Jessica Alba the
whole time. Seriously, ask any female.
You are probably now totally afraid of the female
brain, and you probably should be. However, all of
those issues can be momentarily erased by
overwhelming sexual desire and mind-blowing
orgasms. Touch her, stroke her, really feel
everything that makes her unique. Take the focus
off your penis, and put it onto the woman in your
bed.
If you start paying attention to her responses, and
give her the orgasms she should be having, you'll
see an improvement for both parties.
is also the greatest reason they might end up single
and lonely?
Let me explain:
When you put all the importance in sex on
your own organ, it virtually negates the need for
your partner. Yes, it feels so much better to put
your penis into a vagina than into your fist, but
if that is your only concern you're not really
having sex, you're just getting off.
And guess what?
She can tell. And the more you make her feel like
nothing but a cum dumpster, the more she is going
to pull away from you sexually.
Translation: if you don't put any effort into her
experience in the sack, she will cease to put out.
The greatest impediment to a woman's orgasm is
psychological. She must feel sexy in order to feel
sexual. In today's age, there is a constant
bombardment with images of fantasy - Victoria's
Secret Angels, impossibly perfect and perky
heroines in film, the mainstreaming of porn. The
business intention behind this is to create an
aspirational image. Nobody buys into something they
already have.
However, in the past fifty years, our access to
media has increased exponentially, and society's
consciousness hasn't necessarily had time to
adjust. No matter how secure a woman is, or how
much she turns you on, those images of rote,
male-specific fantasy still lurk in her
subconscious. Women's magazines are flooded with
articles featuring Photoshopped spreads of
actresses giving interviews revolving completely
around diet and exercise routines. Oprah publicly
apologized for gaining weight.
No matter how much they fight against it, women are
consistently told that there is a single standard
for hotness, and none of them fit it. If you get up
in there, pump away until you're done, and then
roll over and start snoring, it looks to her like
you merely put it where you were given permission,
but you were really thinking about Jessica Alba the
whole time. Seriously, ask any female.
You are probably now totally afraid of the female
brain, and you probably should be. However, all of
those issues can be momentarily erased by
overwhelming sexual desire and mind-blowing
orgasms. Touch her, stroke her, really feel
everything that makes her unique. Take the focus
off your penis, and put it onto the woman in your
bed.
If you start paying attention to her responses, and
give her the orgasms she should be having, you'll
see an improvement for both parties.
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