The '84 Dolphins were an historic team for any
sport.
This was large in part due to Dan Marino's
outstanding season at quarterback. He passed for a
record-setting 5,084 yards and a record-setting 48
touchdowns, and was only sacked 14 times during the
regular season.
He had an uncanny ability to read a play and a
laser for an arm. Combining this with the
synchronicity he had with wide receivers Mark
Clayton and Mike "Super" Duper, it's no wonder they
stand out as one of the greatest teams in sports
history. Hours upon hours of training and drill
running read to this team's precision offense.
However, this is not the way one should approach
sex.
Concentrating too hard on technique can actually
inhibit pleasure during sex. No matter how much
practicing you've done, no two women ever react to
touch the same way, and even the same woman could
have different responses on different occasions.
Mastering specific maneuvers is a practice in
futility.
You're not trying to win the Super Bowl here;
you're trying to please your woman.
Over-thinking your technique is counter productive
to the affect a woman is seeking during sex, which
is a shared connection. I'm not talking soul mate
stuff. Even if it's a one night stand, sex will not
be as satisfying to a woman if the man is not
engaged in the act.
If you're concentrating too hard on which maneuver
comes next for optimum satisfaction - touch her
breast, then kiss her lips, then gently place your
hand between her legs - then you are not using the
best tool you have, which is you.
A woman experiences sex differently than a man. All
a man really needs in order to achieve climax is
stimulation of the penis. If his penis enters a
vagina, he has achieved sex.
Women, however, have sex with all their senses. The
smell of your hair and the warmth of your skin are
all integral to her pleasure. She is experiencing
you with her lips, her hands, and, yes, her
genitals. If your brain is absent, you are not
responding to her desire to touch you, and she will
inevitably feel the distance. However, if you take
a cue from her and start putting your mind back
into the game, you will improve the pleasure levels
for both of you.
Next time you are in bed with a woman, stop worry
about every minutia. Instead, focus on the person
lying with you. Catering to her responses will
yield a vastly superior reaction than cold,
practiced moves.
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