What You Can Learn From Lesbians

I know what you're thinking.


You're expecting some "Brianna Loves Jenna"
play-by-play involving pillow fights and strap-ons.
Well, it's not happening.


That's your version of lesbian sex, and you're way
off base. Women in lesbian relationships generally
report a higher level of sexual satisfaction than
their heterosexual counterparts. "Well, yeah,"
you're thinking, "they have the equipment." Well,
yes, but not in the way you're thinking.


The "equipment" you deem necessary for sex is just
your penis, which is quite different than what
women bring to the bedroom. Kissing, touching,
sucking, caressing - these are all parts of a
woman's sexual experience, and you've been ignoring
them.


This may come as a shock to most men, but a lot of
women think men are boring in the sack. This is
because men think that there is a method to sex:
get her wet, get inside, and get your rocks off.
There is no real explanation for how this sequence
of events became the norm, but it's causing real
sexual inhibitions in men.


Sex is not a job.


There's no sequence of tasks that must be performed
in order to achieve the end game, i.e. blowing your
wad. Concentrating solely on your own orgasm takes
the intimacy out of the sexual experience.


You may have gotten off, but you haven't maximized
the pleasure of either party. Okay, maybe you went
down on her. Were you savoring each sensation? Or
were you thinking, "Hurry up and cum so I can get
up in there!"


When two women have sex, they are not working
toward one simple goal. An orgasm does not signal
the end, and they don't go in treating it as such.
Every look and every touch is part of the
experience.


The warmth of the other's lips, the softness of her
skin, and how she responds to being touched is
shared between partners. It is very much about the
two coming together for mutual pleasure and shared
intimacy. It is also about fun, and you know what
they say about girls just wanted to have fun.


Fear not, pal, there's good news for you, too. Your
heterosexual female partner is responding to your
lips and hands in the same way a gay woman responds
to her lover. She loves the way your skin smells
and the way your breath tastes.


It's how you got her into bed in the first place.
When she goes down on you, it's not because she
just loves having a dick in her mouth, it's because
she savors the pleasure it provides you.


Making love in this way satisfies all your senses,
not just your penis. Don't miss out on all the
pleasure! You're only cheating yourself.


That's all for today. Check your inbox tomorrow
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